Pretty long (like other posts of mine):
First get to know her, trust her and earn her trust. If you're respectful, wise and trustworthy, then when you share stuff she's more apt to listen (you don't share personal stuff wth strangers, you know). If the two of you are actually tight, then you can ask her questions about her faith. Just be curious, not interrogative. You're not trying to debate, just learn stuff, and also give her the truth when she doesn't have it. How to give truth?
First and foremost, study the truth. I reccomend reading your Bible throughly, and also reading some of the early church fathers. You can find them here
http://www.earlychristianwritings.com/churchfathers.htmlOK, that's a lot of reading, can be tedious and dull. And you have school work to focus on. But knowing (and knowing VERY well) the actual truth must before confronting nontruth. OK, now more practical-
Your friend has been taught from a young age, I bet, that mormonism is the truth (much like you've been taught about Christianity). So whenever you start talking about this stuff, realize that she'll think you're wrong (just as we think she is). Just share the new truths with her. OK, a way to get some practice conversating with people from other faiths: go to
www.carm.org It'll tell you all about other religions; and esp. go to the forums. At the forums are people who specialize in apologetics. You can ask any qestion, and you can watch (and even join in when ready) conversations between Christians and nonChristians. It's a pretty good way to gain experience without getting al intimidated.
Some very practical questions to inquire about:
- I heard that mormonism teaches polytheism.
- So according to Joseph Smith, Jesus Christ was not the One, true God?
- Christ has saved me, it's totally cool. . .do you know if you're saved?
They teach polytheism which is against the Bible, they teach that Jesus isn't te One, True God, and they teach works salvation (which means they never know if they're saved or not). But like I said, going to car,.org is good, and just engaging in dialogue, being curious (and first and foremost being her friend) is the best way. Arguing someone into the faith usually desn't wrk, esp. whenever she'd have to probably go against her church, her friends, her family, what she's been taught al her life, etc.
Just show kindness, curiously inquire about her faith, show her truth when possible, and bring any questons to the carm.org forums. These things take time. Hope this helps!
